Please Critique My Profile
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|Tue, 05-06-2014 - 10:37pm|
I've posted here before and gotten some really friendly feedback. I would like a critique on my Match profile.
After one month, I have been on two dates with one guy from the profile. I had a phone date with another guy. And that's it. I have little experience with serious relationships, mostly meeting guys who do not want to commit.
I've been online dating off and on for years and I am fed up with getting the same kind of guy interested in me. The only thing we have in common is our race which isn't important to me. I love to travel, eat exotic foods and make friends with all sorts of people. I have dated this type of cookie cutter guy since the beginning of my dating days . It never works out because I'm "too weird" for them. And I always assume I can open their minds to my interests, but it never happens. So to combat this I decided to date other races. I am black, by the way. Majority of interest comes from these black guys and some really undesirables. The guys of other races who seem interested are the same in personality as the type of black guys I get. I actually really like guys of other races. I realize i am a bit undesirable for very deonair black guys because I'm an "oreo". I write to guys I like and get no response. I moved to New York for work and the culture. I tend to get native New Yorkers who have a mindset similar to guys I have met in the Midwest, where I come from. The world outside of the neighborhood isn't very interesting to them. There are so many transplants to New York, but they don't seem interested in me. No one seems to read my profile and that drives me nuts!
Please see my profile and I would appreciate your kind wisdom. http://www.match.com/Profile/Display/About/?lid=450&uid=zCYYVXQjjFkVq5bGaL6UDA==