22 Year old Guy wants to be Friends?

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Registered: 09-29-2005
22 Year old Guy wants to be Friends?
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 3:17pm

I need HELP! I've been seeing this guy for the past 2 and a half years. He is in and out of my life. This time he comes back into my life and wants to be friends (I am a few years older (5) and always tried being his friend) - but I realized I cannot be his friend as my feelings for him have grown.

Make a long story short - I tried to kiss him and he rejected my advances telling me friends do not kiss and that we need to set boundaries????????????????????????? Although I did not ask him for a relationship - he tells me he wants to be friends because he cannot give me a relationship????????????????????????????? ANY ADVICE? Is he just playing with me? Using me? (we've messed around but have not consumated anything)