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| Thu, 04-21-2005 - 1:05pm |
Hi all I have a quick question.
I have known this guy for a couple of years now but never really talked to him much up until 8 mnths ago. I am very close to my daughters grandma (my ex's mom, yeah weird but she is my bf)well I hang out there all the time and her brothers friend always hangs out there too. FOr the past 8 months weve been hanging out and we have developed a great friendship. We are so much alike it's crazy. So I am kindof crushing over him right now, see I wasn't really attracted to him but after I got to know him his personality made him seem attractive to me now and he's all around good guy. Well my daughters grandma told me she thinks he starting to have a crush on me. But I never told anyone that I have a crush on him. So I kindof blew it off.
My main problem is our age I am 25 and he is 35 going to be 36. And I have never dated an older man. Do you think that age diffrence is bad?
I want to keep things the way they are but I'm worried if it becomes more than friends down the line, because I have been hurt sooooo many times. But the men I dated in the past were my age or younger. I have never dated such an older man before. But I was told that dating someone older could be better for me. I just need some advice.
Thanks
-Michelle

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Thanks alot.....I will keep you all posted.
-Michelle
Hello all! This is an update. Things are getting even better than before. We have not done any physical stuff yet together like kissing etc. But my hormones are going CRAZY!
We have been hanging out alot. And we both admitted to liking each other ALOT. Saurday was our first kindof date thing if you want to call it that, but it was just him and I and we hung out at his house and drank a couple of cocktails, and talked and talked for hours and then I left at 3:00am. He was such a gentalman and didn't try anything with me, I totally respect that.
If you read back to my other post on this thread you'll see how I was nervous about my dd dad and stuff because me and andy (the guy I like) are close to my xbf family, well they are all excited, they want to see us together sooooooooooooo bad including my dd dad. We both agreed to take things slow because we don't want to rush anything cause him and I both got burned in the past by rushing into things. WE want to get to know each other better as friends and stuff and TRY to leave the sex for last. OMG this is so awesome him and I are on cloud 9. I feel like I am a teenager again. We have so much in common and for the first time I feel like someone finally understands me. LOL!!!!
At first I wasn't attracted to him physically, but after taking the time to get to know him and being around him I am fianlly sexually attracted to him. I know for a fact that a great relationship is going to come out of this.
I don't want to rush the sex but omg my hormones are raging!!!! lol!!!!
-Michelle
LOL!!!!! Thanks for replying. I haven't been on here much at all. Work has been really busy. I don't own a computer so I come on when I am at work. But I always in the past put sex first and it never felt "special" I never waited or anything and I want to do it diffrently this time around you know what I mean?I really like him alot and he really likes me alot and there is alot of potenial for us. I just don't know how long to wait.
as the days go by we get closer and closer. My heart gets butterflies every time I think of him. Maybe I should go to the gym! LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!
-Michelle
That is so great. I'm jealous. I missed all that with my bf. We never had that. And well, sometimes I just miss those early beginning times. I guess when you date a "friend" that's TRULY how it starts. No sparks, cuz they were never really there to begin with. But a slow growing flame. Huh.
enjoy the cloud. Makes me long for those days.
~pineapple_girl
Thanks pineapple girl. Yeah I am pretty excited too. He asked me if I wanted to go out next weekend and I told him "Heck yeah" lol!!!! So we are going out next weekend. And check this out, he thinks that communtication is the #1 key to making a relationship work and it is a great communticator like me. He's a gemini and I am a sagittarius and boy do we like to talk.LOL!!!!
Thanks
-Michelle
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