Am I a fool?
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Am I a fool?
| Tue, 10-10-2006 - 10:16pm |
Long story short - does a man really love you when he's too busy to pick up the phone just to say hello. He says he loves you but doesn't have time for you?

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i am going through a similar situation. you know, you want to believe when someone tells you they love you, are in love with you but when they can't even pick up the phone to call and say hello or return your messages, you have to wonder.
don't call him. i stopped. i am tired of giving him 'opportunities' to reject me and then call whenever it's convenient for him. i can SOOOOOOOOOOOO relate to what you are saying.
Kim
Just to play devil's advocate here --
I think it depends on how often you expect him to call. I'm very busy with my work and so is my BF. We both have our own businesses. There are plenty of times when I don't have time to take 30 seconds to call him just to say hi, and I would think that he was out of his mind and bugging me if he just called me for 30 seconds to say hi. We often go 1 or 2 days without talking on the phone to each other. Both of us are on the phone all day everyday with clients (me), contractors/employees (him), and sometimes the last thing you want to do is put that stinking phone up to your ear. My girlfriends call me a lot more than my BF does, and a lot of times it's a big annoyance. I think it's highly possible that the man loves you and cares about you, but may just not want to chat on the phone at the same intervals you do.
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