Am I making a big deal in my head?
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|Thu, 08-19-2010 - 11:35pm|
I've been dating a great guy for the past 3 years. I meant him shortly after I was divorced. I was very nervous it was a rebound so we went VERY slow and it was great. I have 2 kids and live 30 minutes from him so we don't get to see each other everyday. When I first met him I was smitten by all of the attention I was getting - 3 years later he has definitely fallen into the comfortable stage. Over the past year he has started to verbally acknowledge pretty women when he sees them with a 'Damn she's hot' or 'Mmmm' like he's enjoying a moment with himself and her in his mind. Now don't get me wrong I understand that we are all attracted to the opposite sex, and I've had a few Damn's and mmm's in my head - but that's where it stays in my head and it leaves as fast as it comes. I've brought it up to him a few times and he says he does it to get a rise out of me, but I've explained to him that I don't appreciate it. He blows it off and it stops for a bit but comes every now and then. So that's the back ground of where my head is... now what I need advice on... He is into theatre and is going for a racey part which would land him interacting with women in some risque scenes. No nudity. I honestly don't feel comfortable with it, but I've always supported him with his shows. I feel like he has emotional relationships with the cast when he does shows, but now there will be sexual innuendos as well. I'm not comfortable with it, but I don't know what or if I should do anything about it. I need some advice ladies - how would you feel? What would you do? Am I over thinking this way too much and need to stop?
Thanks for your input