AM I RITE OR HIS HE RITE?????? HELP ASAP

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Registered: 05-13-2008
AM I RITE OR HIS HE RITE?????? HELP ASAP
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Wed, 03-03-2010 - 2:39am
I have been dating this guy for 9mths now we have been thru a lot like drama, him loosing his job n me loosing my job n loosing the apt that we had so we both had to move back home.well i made the mistake in ending my friendships bc of drama and not paying my own bills so now they are in collections just to pay his bills n pay on the apt so bascially i gave up my life just to be with him bc i have no friends,i live at home not by choice,dont got a job n car about to go down while he still has his friends n his bro and im pretty sure that his mom is going to help him get a car and a place he has a job right now hes a mommas boy.but now im going back to school(college)to better myself and i got a facebook page so i can conncect with other students going to the college that i am attending well when the guy and i started dating i had a facebook and a myspace page and well i was shady i will admit that still chating with other males and stuff like dat well now hes saying its over because i wont get rid of the facebook page even though i told him i would give him the screen name and password to it and im only using it for school thats it but its still not good enough and he says he trusts me yea rite. also next week is his b-day and thats when he is supposed2b recieving his tax$back and also next weekend he wanted me to go with his fam to NC to meet the rest of his fam but now its over. am i wrong for not wanting to get rid of the facebook page or is he rite?????????????help
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Registered: 12-22-2007
Wed, 03-03-2010 - 7:56pm

Rock star, your post is very difficult to read with abbreviations and lack of punctuation. If you want more responses, you may want to edit it.

Anyway, about your Facebook page, you say you were being "shady". What exactly were you doing? Were you having inappropriate conversations with other men?

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Registered: 01-02-2010
Wed, 03-03-2010 - 10:09pm
Just my opinion rock star but if I had been in the wrong with it, then I would accept my punishment if it meant that much to him and I wanted to keep him. To me, it would be completely different if he was just jealous and controlling and didn't want you to have it for no reason, but if someone I was with did
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Registered: 12-22-2007
Thu, 03-04-2010 - 12:03am

>>but if someone I was with did as you did<<

NYP, you're getting something entirely different from this post than me. But the post is difficult to read and perhaps I'm missing something.

I understand that she spoke to her male friends on Facebook. She mentions the word 'shady' but doesn't elaborate on how her behaviour was shady.

Am I missing any glaring facts??

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Registered: 01-02-2010
Thu, 03-04-2010 - 3:39pm
She said she admits she was shady and chatting with other males and stuff like that, so although the doesn't say details, she's saying she acted inappropriately with other males on facebook. That's how I read it at least. ?