Amazing weekend---what happened?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-07-2010
Amazing weekend---what happened?
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Fri, 07-09-2010 - 7:06pm

Hello,


I had an amazing weekend with a guy.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-06-2008
Sat, 07-10-2010 - 10:23am

I had someone do this too me once. Asked me out for the second date on the first date, second date we spent the entire day together, doing all sorts of things...he kept asking me to do other things! Then I didn't hear from him for several days, and he had some BS reason why we couldn't see each other the following weekend. Then we went on a third date, and that was also good...never heard from him again.

They do this. Can't explain why, it's just one of the downsides of dating.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-27-2010
Sat, 07-10-2010 - 3:59pm
I think your first mistake is assuming that he needs to treat you as a girlfriend by calling you multiple times a week. I think you should proceed by maybe calling him and inquiring about a future date? It's the 21st century, women don't sit around waiting for men to call anymore - we call them, too! Good luck.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008
Tue, 07-13-2010 - 8:44am
Just checking in to see if you'd heard from him (or maybe you called him?) this week? (HUGS)

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-07-2010
Thu, 07-15-2010 - 5:15pm

We finally had another date this last week.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008
Fri, 07-16-2010 - 8:01am

But I'm gonna try to lower my expectations and not worry about his intentions, feelings, etc.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-07-2010
Sat, 07-17-2010 - 5:44pm
Thanks for your kind words! <3
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-18-2010
Mon, 07-19-2010 - 10:15pm
just be sure to take things slowly and dont be to dependant if you like this guy and remember to breathe :)