Are we just friends?
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|Fri, 01-29-2010 - 4:55pm|
I have a male friend, we are very very close.Live several hours apart, email at least 10 times a day,talk on the phone at least weekly for many hours.
I realized months ago that I have romatic feelings for him and told him recently.He said he was shocked and does not think of me that way.
He is quite shy and has not had a girlfriend in several years.I think he does have feelings for me he is just painfully lost in that arena.Many reasons I know this,too many to go into here.
I want to be fair and not push him but at the same time he needs to be fair to me.Sometimes he sends me very naughty emails(not of himself) but maybe a few topless women and some erotic literature, that kind of thing.
He does have other women friends but does not interact the same way with them.Would a guy send you naughty pictures that(he says) turn him on if he did not want to maybe turn you on to?
He can also be touchy feely,stroke my hair you know, that type of thing but says he is not attracted to me that way.