Are you in love?

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Are you in love?
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Thu, 05-19-2005 - 11:47pm
Are you in love with being in love? Have you ever asked yourself am I sticking in this relationship or am I in love with this person for the fact of being in love? Why are you with the person you are with? If you have to think about it I will ask you to really think am I in love with being in love? Have you ever stuck in a relationship just because you wanted to be in love, wanted to present to your friends and family you were in love though when you two were alone you had doubts or things weren't as good as you put off? Let me know who has been there or if you think you are there and why?
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Registered: 12-18-2003
Fri, 05-20-2005 - 5:00pm

1. Are you in love with being in love?

Yes, it's the most wonderful feeling in the world...although, I don't fall in love very often, I just long to.

2. Have you ever asked yourself am I sticking in this relationship or am I in love with this person for the fact of being in love?

Yes, many times...I've realized I was in it not for HIM but for the RELATIONSHIP. That is all wrong. When I come to this realization, I know it's time to break up.

3. Why are you with the person you are with? If you have to think about it I will ask you to really think am I in love with being in love?

I'm with the man I'm with now because I really do LOVE him. It's taken me a while to find someone this special...I had to learn to really love myself and my single life first, then figure out exactly what I wanted most in a man and what I would not tolerate. I am with this man/love him because we are SO COMPATIBLE--on everything: education, humor, relationship likes and dislikes, personality, goals in life, expectations, mentality about people and life and love, etc. We make eachother laugh, can talk for unlimited amounts of time (till one of us falls asleep or has to go somewhere) about everything under the sun or nothing at all, we are attracted to eachother physically and mentally...and gosh, I just can't imagine being happier.

4. Have you ever stuck in a relationship just because you wanted to be in love, wanted to present to your friends and family you were in love though when you two were alone you had doubts or things weren't as good as you put off?

Oh yeah--been there, tried that many times. It's much more miserable to be with the wrong person than it is to be alone, trust me.

Hope that helps :)
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