bad timing??? it sucks
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bad timing??? it sucks
| Mon, 07-04-2005 - 1:38am |
ok, I met this guy a few months ago and we had immediate chemistry. It was great. We took things as they came and didn't get to see each other very much, he is very busy with his job, he is a recording artist, (who I will not name) and has been working alot lately. But, I understand, it's his job. We made time when we could and we always always had fun together. Well, last week he found out that the people he wanted to produce his new album are going to do it and he is leaving in two weeks. We never promised each other anything, and I knew that his job was going to be a huge factor. He is going to be gone for 8 weeks. I am so so happy for him, but sad he will be gone for 2 months. Here is my question/problem/situation... we have talked about how great it would be to be "together" as in a couple, but it is such bad timing with everything going so right with his career right now. I wish so badly that we could have met another time so that maybe things could work out. I want to say that I would wait for him and that we can talk about it again when he gets back, but I know he wouldn't want me to wait, plus there is not guarantee that things will be different, this could be the beginning of even more busy times for him. But I didn't expect to feel this way about him. He makes me so happy and I know that he feels the same way, but he says it's not the right time for us. I want to believe that because we would be so awesome together. But it sucks so so much for timing to be our reason for not being together.
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| Tue, 08-16-2005 - 5:17pm |
It does suck. But if he says the timing isn't right, then it isn't right for HIM. Trying to make soemthing happen right now will surely cause you more pain. You should take him at his word and see him when he returns in 8 weeks.
| Tue, 08-16-2005 - 7:34pm |
i dont know how popular this guy is, but i do know musicians and artists are very flighty (most of them) ... they tend to have "cehmistry" with many many women. Honestly, I wouldn't waste the time dating a guy like this. Not saying what you think you have isn't there, you could be the exception - but the odds are this guy has about 5 other women pining for him and waiting. i'm so sorry though - i know how much it bites to meet this incredible guy only to have the timing off. It truly is everything in dating - but you'll know when its the right person and time. nothing will stand in your ways...
