Been flirting with brother in-Law help!!

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Registered: 10-31-2005
Been flirting with brother in-Law help!!
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Mon, 11-14-2005 - 4:31pm
i bet this is a new one for you all....
okay heres the story, about a year ago my brother in-law and I started emailing each other, just for something to talk about, eventaully it went from just talking to flirting. Then to meeting in person, But nothing sexual. I backed off and left it alone. But every so often we run into each other again and talk, then flirt, and so on. This last time it was dangerously close to being sexual, I am so drawn to him for some reason, he's kind, sweet, and really a great guy. Well so is my husband, and now my husband is gone out of town for several weeks. Its been several days since we last talked (brother-inlaw) and Im dangerously close to falling for him. I dont know what draws me to him, and I obviously know its wrong. Why do i do this? Its sooo crazy. I think about him all the time. what shall i do?
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Registered: 06-30-2003
Mon, 11-14-2005 - 4:45pm
you need to back away. You are being selfish if you continue this. Think about how once you cross this line you can never go back. Your husband will never trust you again and with reason. Also, you will ruin the relationship between siblings. Why would you even consider this? You married your husband for a reason and he is now like family to you. you don't f over family. Please stop and think about what you are doing before you make a huge mistake. That's my advise. goodluck!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 11-15-2005 - 10:11am

minodee...

"It's sooooo crazy. I think about him all the time. What should I do?"

Pianoguy suggests that go out and buy yourself a book that you can read while your husband is out of town. Meanwhile COOL IT WITH THE FLIRTING....FOREVER!

You are no longer "on the single's market"----so stop pretending that you are!

Pianoguy

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Registered: 10-31-2005
Tue, 11-15-2005 - 1:59pm
I know.....Im totally stupid! I'm going to do the right thing and stop all contact with him.
Thanks for your response.
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Registered: 10-31-2005
Tue, 11-15-2005 - 2:01pm
You are soooo right,I have been totally stupid! thanks