Believe in soulmates/love at 1st site??
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|Wed, 02-24-2010 - 10:47pm|
A few times in my life, I've had instant "chemistry," an instant attraction to a man. One time it was at an art gallery and I barely talked to him but I saw him and felt this warm feeling going through me and I wanted to talk to him but I left! I couldn't stop thinking about it all night afterwards...
A guy I know gave me the same feeling but I was in a relationship. The relationship was kind of going downhill but I wasn't about to start cheating by hanging out with him alone. I felt this instant feeling though. I don't find him super attractive, well not super hot or good looking, and he's not my type because he's only 5'7". But, I felt "in love." The more I saw him, the more I felt it. My relationship ended and I ended up writing him a message on FaceBook asking him to call me.
He called and I asked him out. Well, we talked during the week before our date and have EVERYTHING in common. We get along so well! And I felt more of that feeling for him. We went on this fantastic date and he kissed me afterwards and it was like a fairy tale, seriously!
So we went on our date last weekend but I feel so CLOSE to him and he feels the same. He said that he feels we're on the same page about most everything and he wants to see me more too. I feel like he could be the one! Now, he said we should move at whatever pace makes me feel comfortable but I want to go all in now! I've been open about my feelings that I like him but haven't said anything about that feeling. But it seems he had the same feeling for me because he said he wanted to ask me out but though that I'd turn him down and didn't know if I was still with the other guy.
What do you think? Does anyone believe in love at first site? Or a soulmate? I feel like this could be something really important. Though he's not the body type I've seen myself with he's the person I've seen myself with. At dinner no one else in the room mattered but him. I smile when I think of him... My roommate noticed.