Best friend dilema

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-13-2006
Best friend dilema
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Mon, 05-15-2006 - 7:35pm
Its been awhile since I have posted here. But here is my problem. I think no I know I am in love with my best friend! I have been forever the thing is everytime we have tried to act on our emotions something has always been in the way. Either he was in a relationship or vice versa. Here is the kicker! I am now married. I had not seen my bf in about 2 years he got married joined military and went to Iraq. He is back, divorced and suddenly back in my life. I dont know what to do. I do not want to ruin our friendship but I feel like I need to tell him how I really feel. Should I? Or should I leave things as they are. Its killing me inside!!!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 05-16-2006 - 8:45am
Leave things as they are. Your married so nothing can come of you telling him but him feeling helpless because if he feels the same he can't have you. Leave it along and just continue being friends.
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