bf talking about marriage and proposals
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|Fri, 05-07-2010 - 10:38pm|
So Iam a little confused. The other day in the car my bf had this awful rap type song on and he said this will be our wedding song. I know he was joking though. But Iam confused because we've had alot of issues,mainly because of me, and he began looking at me differently (in a bad way).The last month and a half however I had made HUGE changes and things have been perfect between us. But I don't understand why he would make a comment like that,about "our wedding song" after everything we've been thorugh,he's feeling that confident already?
And just two days ago I was telling him about my best friends sister who just got engaged and how it was at a restaurant. He started saying how cheesy that is then began asking me what I thought was romantic as far as proposals.I told him to me nothing really would be that romantic,I mean a restaurant is tacky and niagara falls to me would be romantic but yet still cheesy.I can't think of an engagement scenario that isn't tacky. He then asked if I thought going back to a first date place is tacky.I hadn't thought of that and I actually thought that would be incredibly romantic.However for us our first date was at a miniputt place,full of neon lights...lol that however would be unromantic. When I said this he just said "oh". That night he was talking about how his brother is buying a house and getting married soon.He was also saying how a girl at his work is getting married soon. I don't undesrtand what is going through his head because usually guys at age 24 do not talk about these kinds of things.It freaks them out. I used to talk about things like that but he would change the subject or make jokes about it. Hes also been talking about me having a baby vs my body size.He says hes worried I won't be able to have a baby because Iam so small.I asked him why he ramdonly started talking about proposals and marriage and he acted as if he wasn't and that it was no big deal.He just said I dunno who cares.Almost seemed like he got angry when I asked him and he didn't want to talk about it.Im really confused by him.Any thoughts? Can anyone maybe be able to give me an idea of what he might be thinking?