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Boss attracted to employee!!!
| Fri, 06-17-2005 - 1:32pm |
So a friend (which happens to be an employee of mine) has caught my eye. Funny thing is we stay up till all hours off the night discussing stuff & I had a great time doing it.
The friendship hit a standstill one night when he reached over & kissed me. I was startled at first because I honestly hadn't expected it. Growing up I had always been marked as "ONE OF THE GUYS" so to hang out with this person was just what I did. After a moment of him saying he was an ass for doing it we started kissing again.Did I forget to mention that we had been drinking & I had asked him if he was doing this because he had been drinking. He said I was asking the wrong question. Which my reply was what is the right question? When we parted (with a kiss) everything seemed cool. Now the next day at work, things were a little strange, he sorta avoided me. I mean not total avoid but different. I haven't even talked to him about this, or hinted towards it. Now for a bit I was worried that our friendship would suffer. But that is starting to build again. What I want to know is why it hasn't gone farther, why isn't it being said? Did I do something wrong. Will we ever have what we did? Its all so very confussing. Thanks for reading any advice would help.
The friendship hit a standstill one night when he reached over & kissed me. I was startled at first because I honestly hadn't expected it. Growing up I had always been marked as "ONE OF THE GUYS" so to hang out with this person was just what I did. After a moment of him saying he was an ass for doing it we started kissing again.Did I forget to mention that we had been drinking & I had asked him if he was doing this because he had been drinking. He said I was asking the wrong question. Which my reply was what is the right question? When we parted (with a kiss) everything seemed cool. Now the next day at work, things were a little strange, he sorta avoided me. I mean not total avoid but different. I haven't even talked to him about this, or hinted towards it. Now for a bit I was worried that our friendship would suffer. But that is starting to build again. What I want to know is why it hasn't gone farther, why isn't it being said? Did I do something wrong. Will we ever have what we did? Its all so very confussing. Thanks for reading any advice would help.

I agree with Cruise. You probably shouldn't read anymore or expect anything more out of what happened. It sounds as if you wouldn't mind if the two of you could continue things where they left off... however - it does take two to tango. So if he is not receptive of the idea, and since he appears fine to avoid the topic all together.. than that's it. Leave it alone. Move on and find someone who is on the same page that you are on.
Jazzy.