Boyfriend might be Cheating??
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|Thu, 06-11-2009 - 12:02pm|
So i really need some opinions about something so here it is . . .
I think my boyfriend might be cheating on me. He always told me that he never would that he would break up with me before he would do that. i seriously don't know what to thing right now. We also live together so i see it because its in my face. So he has this girl co-worker and they are friends (at least what he tells me) no problem i don't care but here are my reasons why i think more is going on then what I'm being told . . . .
1. The go eat lunch together and not just go grab lunch and go back to work, like go get lunch and go to a Park and eat together then go back to work (okay so not really a big deal)
2. Last weekend he planned a boys night out well here i found out that only 2 boys went out and that was him and his brother (now we share a car & its in mine name) i asked him to stay in the area but instead he goes 20 minutes to where he works to go to a bar? (questionable)
3. She Calls him and Texts him (i found out b.c she texted him when i was playing a game on his phone) seems like on a daily basics because i saw one that said to call her at 9 to make sure she's up he drops me off at work at 8:30? (questionable)
4. He got done working at 12 last night but didn't get home till 20 minutes after 1?
5. He can have Girls that are friends but he prefers i don't have any guy friends
6. When i need the car he gets a little huffy about it. starts asking me questions like why i need it and things like that.
Maybe I'm just being stupid but my X cheated on me many times and idk when it comes to this i get weird out and start wondering. I do trust him but i don't trust other girls and with this i don't. if i cant have guys that are friends why does he have to have girls that are friends?? when i ask him he says I'm jealous and he wouldn't cheat on me. If you have a girlfriend why would you do all those things with another girl. Sh*t i only see him Sat & Sun because M-F I work daylight and he works 2nd shift.