Boyfriend -or- Family (need advice asap)
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|Tue, 06-30-2009 - 1:49pm|
I really need advice right now I'm so lost and confused . . . .
So I live with my boyfriend he is amazing we always have each others back and he makes me happy. So heres what's going on Sunday night i left because we had a fight and it was all a misunderstanding but instead of me going back home i went to my moms upset and crying (which i shouldn't of done). We are still together we haven't broke up yet. So i went to our apartment Monday night to talk to him we decided to take a week apart and see if this is both what we want. well while i was walking out the door my mother, my friend, and her mom was standing there telling me to go up and get the cat and i had to choose between family and him! which isn't fair! so i choose my family but i think i made the wrong decision. I love this man he keeps me insane he is there when I'm down and when i just need him to look at me and tell me everything's okay. I love this man i don't know why they cant see that. I know we argue most of the times but lets face it we are fighting about money because of times being hard on everyone right now. but at the end of the night/day we always were in bed saying our nights holding one another. He's the one who was there when we lost our baby but yet my mom insist that i go to the baby showers of my cousins which i know emotionally i wasn't ready for but yet she insisted she says she loves me and that's why she is doing this, well if you love me then let me live my own life and make my own mistakes! she says though if i leave now then i am not welcomed back or around the family if i go with him. I'm stuck in a hard spot right now on what to do. I love him and the way he looks into my eyes and everything about him. I just want to be in his arms again and have him tell me everything's okay! I knew things were not going to be easy in life but this . . is beyond easy!
So we decied to take a week still and make our decisions then! but how do you when you love someone? How do you know that person is the right person for you? How do you know you want to spend the rest of your life with that person? How do you know . . . ?
I want him back with me in my life!!
What would you do in this situation?