Boyfriend wants to get married? Or not?
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|Wed, 12-09-2009 - 10:46am|
So my boyfriend is sort of confusing me.We openly talk about getting married one day and generally we both seem to be on the same page with things.However sometimes I think he himself gets a little confused....about a month ago we went to vancouver for a week,we had a great amazing time, we loved it there and have decided together that next August we'll move there.With him being a chef there are alot more opportunities out there than where we live now.Anyways,he is an amazing boyfriend and its clear in his actions and words hes ready to settle down.Thats fine with me.The thing is one minute he'll talk about getting married then the next he'll say something that makes it sound like, no, were not at that point yet to be thinking about it or talking about it.Like when we decided we were moving to vancouver he said "That should be a big enough hint that I want to get married". And he's always telling me he only wants me,Iam it for him,he wants to grow old with me.....etc.However anytime a commercial on tv comes on about engagement rings or things like that he says don't get any ideas just yet.And when we were in vancouver we went into tiffanys...there was a necklace I wanted to look at, he said the same thing, "don't get any ideas". So Iam kind of confused.I can tell hes ready to settle down,in the way he talks,the things he does....but he's confused me. Does he want to get married or not? maybe he's just unsure...any advice?