break up

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Registered: 01-18-2006
break up
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Wed, 01-18-2006 - 7:54pm
my bf broke up with me last week. We apparently have nothing in common, which is total bs. well since then, we still smile and talk once in a while. The problem is he still flirts with me and he's not the flirting type. He's making it really hard for me to get my work done and making me emotionally unstable. I want to get back with him and him acting like this makes me think we will. i'm so confused by his actions...
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Registered: 01-18-2006
In reply to: pepper391
Wed, 01-18-2006 - 8:04pm

Right now he is controlling the situation. He broke up with you. He calls you when he wants. He decides whether or not you get back together. Why don't you take the control away from him and next time he calls tell him you do not want to talk to him if he does not want to be in a relationship with you. It will allow you to regain your emotional stability and make it clear to him that it is unacceptable to treat you this way.

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Registered: 01-12-2005
In reply to: pepper391
Fri, 01-20-2006 - 7:33pm

Hear hear!

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In reply to: pepper391
Sat, 01-21-2006 - 1:31am

totally agree with the previous two posts.

By the way, I'd be laying money that he's after some sex without commitment. Sex with the ex is just so tragic and desperate....don't give in to his flirting without a relationship.

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