Bus Girl

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Registered: 03-15-2013
Bus Girl
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Fri, 03-15-2013 - 1:48am

Ok so.  I took the bus the other day because I had to get some food for my dog.  He has a problem with his bowels so he needs this really specific food.  The stuff cost $20 dollars a bag for real.  Anyway, when I got on the bus I was sitting across from this girl and she was kind of cute.  She had on a blue shirt and I had on a blue shirt!!!!  When it got to my stop she followed me off the bus.  I started to walk away from the bus stop but wanted to know where she was going but when I turned around she was looking at me.  I sort of freaked out a little and walked away.

I started to think that she might have been into me and I should have talked to her.  I've ridden the bus a bunch of times since then hoping to run into her but no dice.  The bus girl is nowhere to be found.  What should I do?

Ted

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Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: unacho
Fri, 03-15-2013 - 11:55am

Unless you get lucky again and run into her, there's not much you can do.  I know that cragislist has one of those "missed encounters" sections for just these situations but I wonder how you could count on that other person reading it--it doesn't seem much better of a chance than hoping you'll run into her again on the bus.

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Registered: 08-09-2012
In reply to: unacho
Fri, 03-15-2013 - 5:00pm

unacho wrote:
<p>Ok so.  I took the bus the other day because I had to get some food for my dog.  He has a problem with his bowels so he needs this really specific food.  The stuff cost $20 dollars a bag for real.  Anyway, when I got on the bus I was sitting across from this girl and she was kind of cute.  She had on a blue shirt and I had on a blue shirt!!!!  When it got to my stop she followed me off the bus.  I started to walk away from the bus stop but wanted to know where she was going but when I turned around she was looking at me.  I sort of freaked out a little and walked away.</p><p>I started to think that she might have been into me and I should have talked to her.  I've ridden the bus a bunch of times since then hoping to run into her but no dice.  The bus girl is nowhere to be found.  What should I do?</p><p>Ted</p>

outside of sitting at that bus stop for hours and days at a time, there really isn't much you can do.

best thing I can offer is to remember that "he who hesitates is lost".  Next time, dont' freak out and walk away---give the girl a big smile to make sure she really was looking at you and then approach her and tell her your name and that you think she's cute and would like to get to know her.

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Registered: 03-15-2013
In reply to: unacho
Tue, 03-19-2013 - 5:55pm
Internet to the rescue! But seriously, I hear you can have lots of "encounters" on craigslist. :>)). Thanks for the info. I'll check it out.
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Registered: 03-15-2013
In reply to: unacho
Tue, 03-19-2013 - 5:57pm

Wow!  I would have never thought of that.  Thanks.