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Commitment Issues
| Tue, 10-25-2005 - 1:18pm |
Hi,
My boyfriend and I were together for 6 months. He has taken time off from our relationship. He says he has commitment problems and needs to deal with some issues on his own. We had an amazing relationship and were very much in love with eachother, no issues at all. Do guys really think and resolve commitment issues? Should I wait or go?
Thanks,
QT

Marie
I agree too. I've known people who have commitment issues which are suddenly resolved them when they meet "the one".
I'm also wondering if "commitment issues" could mean the same as "it's not you, it's me". Could it simply be his way of ending the relationship? (Albeit a very poor method).
Anyway, I wouldn't wait for him.
I've been posting anout a similar kind of thing.
The guy says he's not ready for committment with any one, but he calls every day, and says he doesn't want to blow it with me. He has said he's not ready to be perceived as a couple. he always is very interested and concerned with all the details of my day adn openly shares his. he says he's intimidated by the strong feelings toward me and wants to take it very slowly staying at the friends stage for while because his feeling frighten him.
Is this the same kind of "not ready for committment" that means " hes not ready to commit with me" ?
Marie