Confused and Need Advice (Guy advice appreciated)

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Registered: 03-11-2011
Confused and Need Advice (Guy advice appreciated)
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Fri, 03-11-2011 - 1:46am
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Fri, 03-11-2011 - 12:28pm

He sounds like a thoughtful guy and maybe he's just a bit flaky?

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Fri, 03-11-2011 - 12:48pm

So exactly HOW is he trying to "change his ways"?

This guy is not much of a catch. I don't know what else to say. There are other guys out there who can remember simple facts about you and refill your drink, this one isn't that special.

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He usually is a thoughtful guy and I feel like whenever he forgets we have plans he's just being a typical guy. What makes me upset is the fact that he hasn't returned my call at all-not even a text. Instinct tells me something is going on but I just can't decide if it's cheating or drugs again. Is he smooth talking me when he says I make him nervous and he's shy around me? I think he does care about me but he's having a hard time showing it....
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He says school is number one right now and he's trying to distance himself from friends who want him to go out all the time. He's a good student and works but I feel like he's getting sucked back into the college life again of partying. I believe to him being dedicated to school and work was a far cry from his previous ways years ago. It's just sad that we always have a good time together and he makes me happy but then we can go for a week without hanging out...Thanks for the advice undercovercrab & cmtasha!
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Tue, 03-15-2011 - 10:00pm
Sounds like he is a good party friend but not a good boyfriend.