Confused and Need Information

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Registered: 01-20-2006
Confused and Need Information
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Mon, 02-13-2006 - 4:57pm
I like my best guy friend. He likes me too. We liked each other since last year. And hes even kissed me once when we hung out and we both said we had feelings for each other. This was in december. He flirts with me and stuff, but I am shy around him and I don't know how to ask what is going on. Please Help he drives me crazee with butterflies..
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Registered: 10-13-2004
Tue, 02-14-2006 - 2:13am
Hon, the general rule of thumb is that if he hasn't asked you out, then he's just not that into you. About the only exception would be if he's so very painfully shy that he can't ask a girl out.
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Registered: 01-18-2006
Tue, 02-14-2006 - 8:35am
Yeah I would agree with the 2nd post. He's not in to you. If he wanted to be with you, he would have asked you out already. Depending on if you two are single, just be straight with him and ask him out. But if he's starting to flirt with you like that because he just got out of a relationship, or he's horny...then beware...you may put yourself in a position to get hurt. Keep in mind that you make like him a lot, but he just see you as someone to sleep with..."friends with benefits". Since you have feeling for him and dont know what to do, I would be prepared to be let down in this case. If this guy is your "friend", and is kissing/hanging all over you...he's NOT your friend.