confused and out of the blue, break up.

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Registered: 03-13-2011
confused and out of the blue, break up.
Sun, 03-13-2011 - 9:08pm

my boyfriend of about 6 months broke up with me on monday he is 25 and i am 20.

we were fairly serious and he wanted move in together, he found a place to move into.

he doesnt say anything he doesnt mean and is a very trusting and reliable person.

he would never cheat and doesnt cheat.

we went to dinner, and walking back to his car, he said "i dont know how to say this because i love you so much" then i asked if he didnt think we were working he said "yeh we are, its great but its what i need"

hes had a alot go on in his life right now and wants to get on his own two feet,

he has 2 jobs day and night and we only saw each other 2 or 3 days a week for about 2 hours tops each.

he said he felt he wasnt giving me enough time and its was going to get worse because of work.

he said there is always later. i asked if this is what he wants all he said is this is what is needed.

Im fairly heart broken..

advice please.

i refuse to contact him! he is also stubborn and wont.

i miss him and i know he loves me and hasnt ever felt like he has towards me, to another person.

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Registered: 05-18-2009
Mon, 03-14-2011 - 10:38am

Well... First of all I'm really sorry this happened to you. It must hurt a lot.