Could be the one? Or am I dreamin
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| Sat, 01-07-2006 - 4:06pm |
~WOW~ i need some advice other than my friends LOL.. although her advice is great.. I would like to see what other people think...
ok.. here goes..
its new years eve, im at a huge club party.. get up all dancin its hot.. My friend leave me on the dance floor.. and I end up dancing with this nice lookin guy.. New years countown.. a friendly kiss to my friend.. and go back to dancin and kissin the guy :) dancing for abit.. and then he was pulled off the floor by his brother. I figured it was just a one night kiss thing.. and didnt think he was going to call. well I was at work th next day.. and my friend called.. and told me that I was the cinderella girl.. im all like what.. i figured that I entered my name in some draw and got picked.. BUT it was the guy .. HE CALLED ME!!! he told my friend that he searched everywhere to find me even 411 hehehe. we talked for hours.. well at least until my phone started to beep ( cordless) other wise we wold have talked more.. anyways the other night we had a movie date.. he came over. givin me a hello hug and kiss.. and we cuddled on the couch. and more talked than watched the movie.. he very affectionate..he always has something nice to say about me, always complimenting me. :) anyways he asked me what I was doing in the summer and he wanted to know if i would go to italy with him.. im so jumping the gun.. but I WOULD SO GO!!! my friend says that he could be the one.. i mean I have this thing right now where I dont want a boyfriend, and cringe when someone asks me if I can see my self gettin married.. but theres something about this boy that has my mind all changed I can totally see things happening.. but I wonder if this is just a dream.. or should I go for it.. next time that I talk to him.. im going to ask him if he was serious about italy. anyways im going to go now.. before I get his published and make it a best sellter lmao.. have a nice day

Hi Sweetie,
My experience has been when they flame up fast they burn out quickly also. Maybe this won't be what happens to you. I do think it is a little early to make summer plans.
Just had something like that happen to me in the last 10 days or so. 'Eddie' and I met and went out a couple times while he was here for a bowl game and all of a sudden he's in love with me, talked about me being his wife...yadda, yadda, yadda. Told him he doesn't know me yet but it was a high for a few days while at the same time being scary. He saw his counselor when he went home who told him not to get involved with just one person since he is very recently divorced. I just broke a two year engagement in Sept. so I don't know if I'm ready for a serious relationship yet either. 'Eddie' lives out of town and is supposed to move here by the 24th of this month so we'll see. Meanwhile, good old 'Bob' who is sweet and thoughtful and I've been dating for about five weeks now is looking better and better. Something about slow and no pressure sounds good to me. 'Bob' hasn't said he loves me but does talk about how he is attracted to me and says 'wow' after we kiss. Kinda cute and no pressure.
Just try to be prepared in case your guy suddenly becomes apathetic and I'd advise don't commit or limit yourself too early. I really think the guys do need to do some chasing.
Good luck!
Barra46