Could it become more?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-16-2005
Could it become more?
5
Tue, 10-18-2005 - 12:34pm

Good Morning Everyone:

Okay Im not quite sure where exactly this guy, Steve, and I stand. We have been seeing one another for about 3 months and have known one another for a year. About three weeks ago he called me up on a Saturday night and told me he was having a cook out with his family and that he wanted me to come meet everyone. So I went and everything went great. Last night he asked me to go with him to his bosse's house for a cookout. He has invited me to go places with his close friends and family and keeps mentioning that he wants me to meet all these people that are really close to him (best friends, college roommates, family, etc.). Could this possibly mean that he wants to become more serious and be exclusive? I know I should stop being a chicken and just ask him but I am afraid of getting an answer I don't like. Opinions Please!!!

anna

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-19-2005
Thu, 10-20-2005 - 12:28pm
You've known each other for a while so I would say there is potential. This uncertainty is always fun.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-21-2004
Thu, 10-20-2005 - 8:23pm

<< Could this possibly mean that he wants to become more serious and be exclusive?>>

Yes. Rarely, will a guy want a girl to meet his family, hang out with co-workers and best friends if he isn't "into her." IMO, no need to ask him. Just go with it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-19-2005
Thu, 10-20-2005 - 11:36pm


Anna,

I'd say he's crazy about you. Speaking from personal experience...when my BF and I met we were just "friends", "hanging out" but within weeks he was wanting me to meet his family and inviting me to hangout with his buddies, etc. (Which was totally weirdo to me since I'm pretty private about stuff like that when dating new people.) But I went along with it, and it was so nice to be included in his life and have fun together but there was no pressure or expectations put on me to be so involved in his life.

I met him at a bar and took him home with me (it worked out but not really recommended if looking for love) and i call him my Never-Ending One-Night Stand. And we've been together since that first nite 2 years ago, so anything could happen!

Just go with the flow and if it doesn't feel right jump out of the boat!

Missy :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-16-2005
Fri, 10-21-2005 - 12:16pm

thanks for your opinoins. I really appreciate them. But...should I go ahead and ask him just to clear things up or just let it be and go with the flow. YES, I like to analyze and overthing some things too much. My friends tell me its my biggest flaw. But heck thats me. :)

anna

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-23-2002
Fri, 10-21-2005 - 5:35pm
If I were you, I would in a non-threatening and very casual way, say something like, "I have really enjoyed our time together.

~Live to be happy~Be happy to live~