Could it happen?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2004
Could it happen?
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Sat, 03-17-2012 - 4:51pm

This is a little long. I wrote something about this last fall but now need more input. There’s a man with whom I work at times- different companies and about 6 hrs away. But, he travels up here every couple of weeks. About a year ago we began to do things totally unwork related when he was in town- a hike, dinner at my house or a restaurant, etc. I wondered for a long time about what was going on between us.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2011
Mon, 03-19-2012 - 4:12pm

I'm confused (sorry). Did he want more at one time, and you pulled back? Or has it always been more of a FWB deal? If it is a relationship that you want, then I think you need to make sure it is something he wants as well.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2004
Mon, 03-19-2012 - 9:23pm

I think he wants more out of a relationship- he told me last fall that he wanted to grow old with someone- but I'm not sure it's with me!

He called today in response to an email (business related) email I sent him & talked again about doing something this summer.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2011
Mon, 03-19-2012 - 9:29pm
Really sounds like first of all, figure out exactly what you want, and then have a conversation with him