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|Sat, 08-01-2009 - 10:11pm|
Here's some background. I met a guy in a bar that I think I like. I'm 24 and he's 42. We're both clearly attracted to each other. I don't believe we're compatible but I think about him when I wake up and we call or text each other everyday, without fail.
Obviously, the age is a hang up. He's trying to get on the marriage track and I'm just starting to date again (after a really bad relationship). He is kind of a party kid; he drinks & smokes, which drives me crazy (the smoking, not the drinking). Every time we're together, there's a definite attraction but nothing serious has happened. He's also very needy.
Are needy men doomed to rely on women they date or can they become more independent with time?