Crazy in love, but he's with crazy...
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Crazy in love, but he's with crazy...
| Thu, 11-24-2011 - 8:45pm |
He's my partner at work. He's 38. I'm 27. It started out at friends, but we clicked instantly. And then, somewhere along the way I fell hopelessly in love. He has admitted attraction, that clearly runs deeper than sexual. Problem?
His live in girlfriend of 5 years, who's completely awful. She treats him badly, they fight all the time, she lies constantly. They go back and forth. Finally, he had had enough, called it quits. Her response was to suck up. He gave her 30 days to get out. She is still there, almost two months later.
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The complicating factor here is you still see him at work and have a lot of contact with him there. You need to get a transfer within your organization, if such is possible, or look for a new job, despite the lingering bad economy.
You are right to write him off. Some people of both genders are just caught up in disfunctional relationship patterns. They
Which one sounds like the healthier choice? If you choose the latter, it will hurt at first, but as time goes on you will feel better because you won't be caught up in his relationship turmoil.
I'm with Red on this one.
It's never easy to walk away.
I am learning that any man (or woman) looking around before their old relationship is over, is not really serious about next relationship - people on these boards tend to e pretty smart!
Oh, my. I've been in your situation!