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| Thu, 03-09-2006 - 6:51am |
Hi!! Anyone out there have any recommendations on good books about Dating, relationships, self help etc.....
| Thu, 03-09-2006 - 6:51am |
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Lol, this won't come as a shock. If you want to see how your childhood has shaped your adulthood and life outlook, if you want to see how women in the home and in society ultamitely hold all the power and can have all they desire if that power is weilded correctly, so long as you want a reality check and not a kiss your bottom nothings-your-fault feel good read I highly recommend:
Bad Childhood, Good Life.
10 Stupid Things Women Do To Mess Up Their Lives.
The Proper Care & Feeding of Husbands.
all by Dr. Laura Schlessinger.
FG, are you spiritual at all? If so, then my top recommendation is "In the Meantime" by Iyanla Vanzant. It's all about recognizing that you have to "clean your own house" before you can be in a healthy relationship.
Sheri
I agree that 10 things a woman do to mess up her life is a great book. I also recommend:
why men love bitches
men are like fish
I agree! I read why men love bitches and men are like fish and they are filled with good advice. The first might might sound like it's asking you to play games, but it's really about being independent and staying true to yourself. I read that book when someone broke up with me and it made me feel so empowered and definitely not as desaparate or sad. I am not in a very happy and healthy 1 1/2 year relationship =)
I am definitely thinking about reading the proper care and feeding of husband. We are not going to get married anytime soon, but it doesn't hurt to have knowledge in advance!
I'm finding it very helpful
Books are great- but why not ask advice of your fellow female? What answer are you looking for. That would help us direct you to a book and maybe give you some insight.
Savannah
www.ontheroadtomrright.com
Dear Savannahariley,
I agree--ask other women!! He**, we've done the field work! Although I'm partial to Mars Venus theories, what I really love are the women out on the mv message boards. We're a high powered bunch all in all. And we've all battled with low self-esteem, being low-hanging fruit, falling for the "bad boy," having our hearts ripped out (more than once for many of us), and are sharing our common wisdom, what we've learned and are learning with each other.
I've been on that site since October, when my last bf pulled away from me--and believe me, it was NOT what I wanted. It's a process healing from a broken heart, rebuilding your self-esteem, accepting your life without a man and being happy in it! And, not allowing yourself to succumb to bitterness, regret, or blame.
I hope you'll join us--I'm sure you've got a ton to contribute! beyondmeasure
Thanks! I have actually posted here many times in the past, more than I care to remember! LOL Everyone here is terrific and offers great advice, I was just looking for a book or two to help me with some more anwsers and to help me better understand how to handle my situtation.
Been seeing a guy for almost a year now, and I suppose I should have left along time ago. Ive come to the conclusion hes a committment phobe. Things are constantly on an up and down. Ive reached the point now of where I cant deal with it anymore, yet I cant seem to let go, or at least when I try Im very unsuccessful.
Just this past week he did nothing to acknowledge my bday, and then told me he'd spend saturday or sunday with me, but never called. When I spoke up and told him how I felt a big battle began, and he made me out to be the one that was wrong. We talked it out after we were calmed down and since Monday hes been calling a few times a day, but here it is Friday, we talked about getting together today, he was supposed to let me know last night, and again no call.
It amazes me just how badly one person can treat another and live with themselves. Im 45 years old and have lived my life trying to be good to others and treat people with respect, yet here I sit, allowing someone to treat me so badly.
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