Did i ruined my chance with him?
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Did i ruined my chance with him?
| Mon, 07-17-2006 - 12:49pm |
Back in February I meet this guy and I been having a crush on him ever sense. See he is friends with one of my closest friends and he got invited to my birthday party. That night he asked me for my number and flirted the whole night…but nothing ever came out of it… so since he is really close to my friend we actually got to see each other a couple of times more and once again there was chemistry between us….well this Friday I saw him again. We saw each other at a club and we danced together the whole night long none stop and well we got pretty hot and heavy in the dance floor and I never thought that I could get turned on by someone just dancing with me but well it happened this time….so needless to say we slept together that night… and it was incredible…..now the problem is that I am not used to doing that…the only people I have slept with are with people that actually mean something to me like boyfriends….and so in the morning I practically ran out of his house…he didn’t want me to leave but I just freaked out and did….basically I just told him that I was leaving and rushed out. The thing is that I am worried that by sleeping with him so soon I have ruined my chances with him…that he will think that I am too easy…which I was that night…..and well he hasn’t called…and I don’t know if he hasn’t called because it was just a one night stand for him or if it was because he got the impression from him me that I didn’t like him or something since I rushed out in the morning….i don’t know what to think….and I don’t know what to do….i don’t want to call him cause I don’t want him to think that I am desperate so I wasn’t thinking of an email. And just kind of explain my self….i need some advice…We will both be going to the same event in 2 weeks and I don’t it to be weird between us….cause I really like him….i know it stupid of me…..

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Edited 7/26/2006 6:29 pm ET by eclipsie
Hi eclipsie,
Thank you for sharing your story with me...Now I understand what you were trying to tell me before..... So just to give you and update....I emailed him 2 days after we sleept together through his myspace account and just told him that I had a good time etc. Right...so i didnt hear back from him until this monday...he called me but i missed his call so he left me a message. Saying that he was sorry that he hadnt called earlier but that he has been really busy and that he just wanted to call me and find out how i was doing..and to call him back....well it has been 2 days since he called....but i cant decide whether i should call him back or not....i defintely dont want to be a booty call....which makes me think that thats what he wants since it took him this long to call.
As for you...well you sure made thinks complicated....really complicated. Ok so since you will be moving...do you want a relationship with him??? or is it the fact that you are worried about his opinion of you that is making you stress out? Cause if you are moving and you dont want a relationship with him...then who cares...you wont be here :) Now if you want a relationship with him, then maybe the next time you see him you will have to come out clean and explain your self....
Hi goddess sephoria, thanks for the reply. I think if sex is all a guy is after then it doesn't matter if you wait or don't wait... once I waited with a guy I liked but he got tired of waiting and went on looking for someone who would put out. Maybe if you hang out with him again you can determine what his true intentions are, so I say call him back.
Keep us updated!
You hit the nail on the head... mostly I am worried about his opinion since he was my neighbor and I was friends with his older brother. But truthfully I don't see it happening, especially since I'm moving, so I'm leaving it as it is.
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