Does he care?

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Registered: 02-09-2004
Does he care?
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Sat, 08-20-2005 - 4:40pm
I'm hoping someone can help me with my most recent problem with my guy. We have recently moved away from each other(probably been two months) and it seems like he is never excited about seeing me. We only see each other on Saturday night and Sunday morning and talk maybe thirty minutes every night during the week. I don't understand why he doesn't try to make more of an effort to come and see me. It's like he has all these other plans and when he gets extra time he will come to see me(we live like an hour apart). I really love him and he says he loves me and wants to make this work but when I get hurt every weekend because he is "trying" to make time for me he gets irritated at me and says it's only been a week. But for me a week seems like a long time to go without seeing him. Do guys not consider it that important to spend time with their girlfriends? Am I expecting too much to think I should see him for a whole weekend instead of half the weekend? I really don't know what to do to make him see how I feel. And why do you think he doesn't want to spend much time together?
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Registered: 06-14-2005
In reply to: adpiluv2001
Mon, 08-22-2005 - 4:37pm

i'm not sure as far as expectations goes, but i do think that you should try to discover things that you enjoy (cooking, cleaning, reading, shopping, family/friends time). by doing so, this will allow you to focus on other things besides him and maybe that will make the time in-between the visits seem less escruciating.

hope this helps