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don't know what to do
| Sat, 02-11-2006 - 1:41am |
have a problem on my hands and I don't know how to fix it. I had a major crush on this guy since high school and still do now....he knows that I like him but he never called or told me how he felt about me and his friends tried to tell him I'm not the type of girl he thought I was(<----basically a golddigger,which I'm not). Now I'm talking to someone new and he has deep feeling for me and trying understand how all my feelings for the other guy is and why he was so blind to let go a good catch b/c I think in a few days he'll be back home visting his friends and family(he lives out of TX)and he'll tell me how he feels about me. Am I wasting my time waiting on the one I think is my destiny or move on to the who actually shows me the affection and see me for who I really am.
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| Sat, 02-11-2006 - 8:48am |
There are three things I would like you to clarify. first, what makes you think he's going to tell you how he feels about you? second, how do you feel about the guy you're seeing? third, how old are you? These questions will allow us to give you much better advice.
| Sat, 02-11-2006 - 7:14pm |
You cannot have a destiny with someone if you don't have a relationship with that person. You are letting your imagination stall your life. Instead of waiting endlessly for something that may never happen, move on with your life in a positive direction.
| Sat, 02-11-2006 - 10:32pm |
first, I'm 25 and 2-I got a heads up from a close friend of his that he'll tell me pretty soon and I do have feeling for the other guy but its so hard for my feelings both to happen this way.
| Sun, 02-12-2006 - 6:17pm |
I don't think it's fair to continue on with the guy you're seeing if you are in love with someone else. Maybe you should tell him that you're not ready to be committed and that you need some time. You need to find out once and for all if the other guy is interested in pursuing something with you. If he doesn't tell you, then have a talk with him. If he isn't interested, you need to decide if you really want to pursue a relationship with the current guy or if you're only with him because he's safe.
