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| Thu, 05-05-2005 - 6:03pm |
HI yall,
I dont know where to start? I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. And i just recently found out that he slept with my bestfriend. ive been bestfriend with this girl for 8 years now. Needless to say i confronted the both of them, come to find out that i was in the house when they had sex! (i was sleeping they were in the computer room) I am so hurt because these are the two people i trust the most. my best friend all she said was that it happend and that she was sorry. but that she has been in love with him. i am living in her house because i just moved to this state with him and i just feel so betrayed!
he has cried to me and pleaded to me non stop but i just dont have it in my heart to forgive him. i cant even write anymore i cant stop crying

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Hugs. And you're right, your xbf now, does NOT deserve you and you definitely deserve better. I always figure, if he (or if someone) loved you ask much as they claim AFTERWARDS, they never would've strayed to begin with.
You will survive. Stay strong.
~pineapple_girl
hugs to you girl, I think you are really brave and are doing well. I dont know how i would react if my best friend did that and to make it worse with my bf. You are doing good, you are gonna move on and going a step above them because they are just not worth it. I can understand your confusion as i am in a confused state myself but I think you being able to do something about it is great. It is so strange how people you trust the most always let you down, but now they will always regret it as they have both lost someone too, who is better of a person than them. I think eveyone makes mistakes but you said you found out it was going on for long, i believe mistakes are made once and thus forgiven, you cant call something you ( in this case him) did repeatedly for a long period of time a mistake because with that excuse it could continue being a mistake until you found out!
As far as your ex- best friend is concerned, she seems to be an evil person who was pretending to be your best friend because best friends usually want the best for you, not ruin what they know means alot to you for their own selfish reasons! She doesnt deserve your friendship is what i think.
Goodluck and hope eveything works out for you.
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