everyone sees it

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Registered: 12-29-2006
everyone sees it
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Fri, 02-12-2010 - 3:06pm

So here is my issue.

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Registered: 08-11-2004
Fri, 02-12-2010 - 5:00pm
If he was really a good guy, he wouldn't be flirting with you since he has a girlfriend. If you've fallen for a guy like that, it's not going to end well for you. If he cheats on her with you, eventually one or both of you will get your heart broken. Even if he leaves her to be with you, you'll always have to wonder if he's flirting with other women. Knowing his history, you'll never be able to trust him. So no matter what happens, it won't be good.
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Registered: 12-06-2009
Fri, 02-12-2010 - 10:42pm

having a girlfriend is not the same as being engaged or married.


there is nothing ethically or morally wrong in letting this run its course.


just do so with your eyes open

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Registered: 02-03-2010
Fri, 02-12-2010 - 11:22pm

I`m wondering how much younger he is than you? Could he perhaps be looking for your advice? Just seems strange that he would show you gifts for another woman if it was you he was interested in.

Men/boys can be interested in women for things other than a sexual/romantic relationship.

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Registered: 12-29-2006
Fri, 02-12-2010 - 11:45pm
thanks for the advice guys.