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Floating :)
| Wed, 08-17-2005 - 8:36am |
I cannot recall a time when I've ever been happier. :)
I've met the most perfect guy and I can't believe he's crazy about me. Can you believe I've only known him 2 weeks, but we've been together almost everyday since. And it scares me to death that I care so much about him, I think it'd about kill me if I never heard from him again. Uugghh, I just wish I didn't feel so vulnerable. Why is being in love so wonderful, but so damn scary?
:)

How lovely that you've met someone you really like! I hope things work out.
Not to burst your bubble...just want to interject a little reality here ;-)...two weeks is nothing in the grand scheme of things. You need to date someone for several months before you begin to have a sense of their true personality. The amount of time you spend with someone isn't as important, in many ways, as spending time consistently with them, OVER time.
You're feeling vulnerable (I would guess) because some part of your gut is telling you to slow down and wait and see if he's really as great as he seems. I would urge you to listen to it. As one of my favorite relationship book authors says, "if it's the love of a lifetime, you'll have a lifetime to enjoy it, so what's the rush?"
Sheri
It's good to hear that you're happy with someone, but as the other poster said it's only been two weeks. Just take things slow and one day at a time. The whole thing about being scared is b/c every one is vulnerable when they're in love. You're giving your heart to someone and hoping that they'll recieve it and take care of it just as you would theirs. Love is amazing, but you still have to keep yourself a little bit grounded. Hope I helped.
Steph