Found "The One?" ?HELP!?
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|Mon, 12-21-2009 - 12:08am|
How do you slow your own brain down when it comes to feeling like you found "The One"? I have this overwhelming sensation that won't go away. Everything in me tells me... HE IS THE ONE.
Here's my story:
I recently reconnected with an ex-boyfriend that I dated for almost 2 years(16 years ago!) In talking to him for the past few months, we have recently stared talking almost everyday for the past few weeks. It's mostly in text which I love because I am not a big phone person and neither is he. Though we have talked via phone, just to hear each others voices, we both prefer to text. The text messages just seem to flow, we flirt and we are just connecting on a level that has left me with this overwhelming sense of joy and happiness with a hint of perfection!
So my question/concern is, I am already getting sucked back into the Love that I have for this man. How do I slow my brain down in thinking and feeling that this is the man I am suppose to be with?
How and when do I ask him how he feels about me? I mean I think I know he feels very deeply for me but of course we have not really talked about our feelings yet as its still very, very new to both of us. I have said to him, "I can't believe we have reconnected. I've miss you so much" and he responds, "I feel the same."
Then after our first phone conversation I texted him and said, "It was good to hear your voice. Just thought I'd say goodnight!" and he responds, "I agree, I was just laying here thinking the same thing."
Is it true that if you let something go and it comes back to you its yours forever? Does us reconnecting mean he has come back to me?
Any advice to help me slow down and to keep taking things one day at a time would greatly help. Also if someone has any help in how I can ease into the conversation to how he feels about me, I'd appreciate it.