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| Fri, 09-16-2005 - 7:50am |
When I saw him I liked him very much,he is a college from my work.But he lives in other city and works in the other office.We spent a lot of time together,when he had work in our town.At the beggining I didn't receive many calls from him,but then it got more and more serious.At the first date he proposed me to have sex,but I refused,then we dated many times-he was in my time every week,we kissed,talked,joked...I didn't want to pressure him,he told me that he doesn't want to marry now (me too),but he treated me very well and paid attention to me,he told me that he will wait for our sex.
After 2 months I decided to have sex with him,because fell in love.After great night we reached his room in the hotel.He lied in the bed,waited all from me and I think he was drunk.I was confused,because expected more,but did my "work",as I felt it.But nothing happened,he had problem....
Then someone knock on the door and interrupt us (he was with another man in the room)and I dressed my clothes and went away,he went after me and said - so you did nothing to me!!!
After that he never call....a month passed away...The question is what happened,why everything ended so quickly and why.I really think he was very interested in me,can be the wrong night a reason not to see a girl anymore
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I tried to forget him,but it is so difficult,because the history is not ended...or maybe it is ended for him.I don;t know what to think,really confused....thanks a lot for trying to help me.
I think the word you are looking for is *penis* ;-)
My thoughts are that one of the possible reasons for him not being able to get erect would be that he discovered that the chemistry was all wrong between you. And lack of chemistry is a very good reason to not persue a relationship. Or perhaps he felt terrible about not getting an erection and is too ashamed to speak to you.
But in either case, it would have been good manners to speak to you and tell you that he wanted to end the relationship.
However, now that it's all history, you are well rid of a man who cannot communicate.
never mind,I'm ok now.THanks a lot for so many great answers and help