A guy I have known for almost 5 years
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|Sun, 09-19-2010 - 3:07am|
So about 5 years ago, I was 17 and he was 24. We got along great, we dated for 2 years. With a lot of problems of course. Before I met him, he got his last girlfriend pregnant. He didn't know if it was his because she cheated on him. She came between us more than I would of liked. Finally we broke up after her threatening to take his daugther away from him. But we remained friends and we still hung out. She didn't know. He made all these promises and saying he still loves me but got to do whats best for his daughter.
So they broke up in May of 2009. And we start talking more and seeing more. We both agree we need to work on being friends, then we would talk about us. Like we always had a trust issue with each other. Me because of the ex. And then me because of something I did. Not cheating, but something else. But he says he just wants to be friends now.
But anyway..it's a long story. Just don't want to sit here and type it all. He's anti-social and has ADHD. We've some harsh words to one another. We threaten to stop talking to one another after fights we have. But recently I found out, his mom blames me for his ex and him breaking up and him losing his daughter. But he stood up to his mom about me. Then I guess his brother was talking crap about me one day and they got in a fight because of it. Then this girl who's been going around saying they are together, which I guess they are since recently. He did it to make me mad he says. But anyway, I guess he told this girl about me and how we hang out. She wanted him to stop talking to me. And he said he wouldn't.
Like if he wants to be just friends..wouldn't he kinda let me go somewhat and try to be with another girl? I mean I know stuff about him no one else knows. And he knows stuff about me no one else knows. He's my best friend. But he says he only wants to be friends. But does things to make me think otherwise. Like we were talking the other day and he said "She's petty and your not." Like why would you say that about your supposedly girlfriend but say I'm not?
I'm going to just go along with everything and be friends. He's the first guy I said I love you too. He's 28 and I'm soon to be 22. Right now were on two different pages. He's in his last year of college and getting this figured out in his life. I already have a full time job and just getting my life back in order.
Am I reading to much into this or what? We just had a big arguement and we both took time to think if we wanted to keep doing this. And we both said we wanted to be friends but things needed to change.
I've left some details out...well a lot, but it's a long story. Expands over 5 years.