Having Withdrawals?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2010
Having Withdrawals?
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Sun, 11-06-2011 - 1:59pm

Lately I've done nothing but dream and think about my EX-BOYFRIEND last time he got in contact with me was October 20th via text message then he stopped. I guess I keep thinking and dreaming of him because I want him and I to get back together but then again part of me doesn't want him back. I guess I just really want to confront him and talk to him face to face and ask him where I went wrong and what I did wrong and all this other stuff.


In some of the texts he sent me after our breakup he went on to say that I wasn't supportive of him and he disliked how I always had anxiety/panic attacks. But when I back at it, I was VERY supportive of him 100% he's the one that always pushed me away whenever I tried to help him out but he refused my help then broke down and gave in when he realized my help.
As far as the anxiety and panic attacks yes I had quite a few of them while him and I were together. But I thought about that problem and come on there are other people in this world that suffer from probably even worse anxiety or panic attacks or even other bad cases of various disorders and yet those people manage to work things out or get marriaged, engaged etc.


So I don't understand his point. But yeah I really want to forget about him and move on but he keeps popping back into my head and I don't know what to do. What should I do?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 11-06-2011 - 9:53pm

I think it'snormal that he pops into your head from time to time, but it doesn't mean you have to do anything about it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2010
Sun, 11-06-2011 - 11:08pm

Yeah thats why I'm moving on but still it does cross my mind at times but I have moved on.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Mon, 11-07-2011 - 12:43am

Napy, a big part of what went wrong

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2010
Mon, 11-07-2011 - 12:56am

No his breakup lines were that "you know as well as I did that our time is dead and gone but I don't want to hurt you" him and I did make up from our previous fight and were fine but he said that line and I knew he wanted out but he didn't want to hurt me. But I was the one that loved and cared for him so much that I told him we should just end it and we did.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Mon, 11-07-2011 - 2:09am

Oh well, I guess that no matter what the cause, he just wasn't wanting to be with you anymore.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2010
Mon, 11-07-2011 - 1:10pm

Yeah oh well it's his loss.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Mon, 11-07-2011 - 3:25pm

No,

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2010
Mon, 11-07-2011 - 5:32pm

Oh I see what you mean, yeah.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2011
Tue, 11-08-2011 - 2:35pm

You deserve a man who loves you as you are. Don;t settle for anything less.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2010
Tue, 11-08-2011 - 4:56pm

Trust me I'm not. I know what I want and I'm going to get it. :)

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