He likes me or is just attracted to me?

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Registered: 11-30-2003
He likes me or is just attracted to me?
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Tue, 11-01-2005 - 12:22pm

i like this guy alot and he knows i like him. but i cant figure out what i am to him
heres the story:

we met a year ago and see each other alot through mutual friends and we share almost all of the same interests plus we are always talking on msn. It was obvious from the start we were both attracted to each other so soon we hooked up. i didnt think he was my type back then but we have hooked up again twice and now ive fallen for him.
but it seems thats all i mite be, a girl who is always there just to hook up with, i asked him if i was just his skank and he wouldnt give me an answer just made jokes. he always talks about sex and how he wants to do stuff with me. wen i tried to get answers outta him he sed this is too deep n didnt want to talk anymore.

but on the other hand he may like me coz of some of the things he does. He is always mean to me in a joking way like he will swear just to make me angry and he always play fights with me. He knows i like him coz he always goes on about it saying i love him. (if he didnt like me wouldnt he not wanna bring attention to the fact i like him?)
when other guys hit on me he gets jealous and he flirts with other girls infront of me to make me jealous. yesterday he sed, 'i wonder what im going to say when you tell me u love me' I dunno what to make of that.

im really terrible at reading guys so i have no idea what i am to him, can anyone tell anything from wat i wrote? plz help id really appreciate it/

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-01-2005
Wed, 11-02-2005 - 8:11am
If he liked you and wanted to be with you, he'd tell you. You'd see him for more than just sex and you wouldn't be wondering the meaning of everything he says because he'd be clear about it. It sounds like he's keeping you just close enough to be his bed buddy and no more.
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Registered: 12-27-2004
Wed, 11-02-2005 - 10:33am
Yip. I agree with you.
To the original poster, Let it go, playa. Let it go.