Is he into me again?
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| Sun, 10-09-2005 - 12:50am |
Last spring I dated a guy I work with briefly...he flirted for ages (the smile, the staring, the touch here and there, the, "can I help you with that?", and finally he asked me out). We dated for about a month and things slowly dwindled on his part. I knew enough not to get hung up on WHY, and I didn't..I moved on. BUT, here we are back at work for about a month now (we teach) and the flirting is starting up again (not as blatant, but I think it's flirting). It's the same..."call me if you need help that," the touching my shoulder when he makes a joke or is walking past me, I catch him staring, etc. So...is he into me again? Do men do this? (Change their minds?;-) I'm curious. I admit I still do like him, but I'll tell ya, if he wants to date me again he is going to have to work his rear off to get me to go for it again.
So two questions:
Is he into me again?
How should I handle this if he is? Is playing it cool (I've been pretty aloof with him) a good idea?
Thanks in advance to for any answers:-)

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