Is he into me or not??
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Is he into me or not??
| Wed, 11-23-2005 - 9:09am |
Ok theres a guy that I have had a crush on for a year and a half now. We're both 23 and I go into the place he works for lunch everyday, we would always get eye contact and he would joke with my friend saying she was always mean to him but I was always so nice. About a year ago I was told by his best friend that he liked me too. I was too shy to ever hit on him though so my friend used to talk to him for me (childish I know, but she thought she was helping) and he used to tell her that he couldn't talk to me and for me to come and talk to him. So I took this to mean that he wasn't interested and didn't do anything.
Then a couple of months passed and we were both out and quite drunk one night. He was flirting with me all night and I ended up going back to his place and we slept together. It was my first time which I know may have freaked him out a little. We swopped numbers but I didn't hear anything from him, so three days after I sent him a msg telling him to forget it ever happened, it was a mistake.
After that he was so nice to me, he always made sure to come up and say hi and say my name. Then a couple of months later he got together with one of his work mates, he went out with her for a few months but now they're broken up and the whole eye contact and flirting has started again.
So my questions are, did he just use me? would he have contacted me after if he was really interested? or did I put him off my sending him that msg? should I try and talk to him about it?
Then a couple of months passed and we were both out and quite drunk one night. He was flirting with me all night and I ended up going back to his place and we slept together. It was my first time which I know may have freaked him out a little. We swopped numbers but I didn't hear anything from him, so three days after I sent him a msg telling him to forget it ever happened, it was a mistake.
After that he was so nice to me, he always made sure to come up and say hi and say my name. Then a couple of months later he got together with one of his work mates, he went out with her for a few months but now they're broken up and the whole eye contact and flirting has started again.
So my questions are, did he just use me? would he have contacted me after if he was really interested? or did I put him off my sending him that msg? should I try and talk to him about it?

Marie
Good luck!