He moved! I'm sad. I don't like it.
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|Tue, 02-08-2011 - 10:13am|
So here's my story in as short a way as I can tell it. Seven months ago I started going out with this man that I called "Nice Man," just because he was so! We went out almost every weekend, and we'd see each other during the week sometimes too. We talked on the phone and we even took a long weekend trip together after about two months. Everything was going really well and when the conversation started about becoming a for-real couple, he drops the bomb that he might be moving out of state in three months. That move came last week. I was there, watching the movers, helping him pack, and we said goodbye. He's only been gone a week, and we have talked (he calls, I call, or vice versa).
I just feel so sad because he's gone and we didn't solidify the relationship before he left. All he would say, everytime we talked about it, is that he is hesitant to be in a long distance relationship because they have not worked for him before. He says that's an improvement because before me his answer to long distance relationship was absolutely not. (I don't see hesitant as an improvement, but he swears it is.)
I don't know why I'm sad though. Is it because he's gone? Is it because I feel like I'm just waiting for the other shoe to drop? We've talked about me visiting when the weather breaks, but I'm just not sure that will happen. What am I