Is he planning to propose soon?
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Is he planning to propose soon?
| Fri, 09-09-2005 - 6:12pm |
Hello. Quick recap of my relationship. We've been together for almost 2 years and though we had our ups and downs in the first year, recently we've became much closer. The other night, when I slept over, we talked about things that we never really mentioned before. He asked if I won $150 million, what would I do with the money. Answering his question, he said he'll get us something nice for us to live with our pets and just live away from the city. Another thing he mentioned is that his father bought some acres of land in the Islands and wanted to bring me there when the house is ready. But the most important moment is when we're lying in bed, naked, feeling comfortable. He said it just felt right being with you (we're both "sleeping together virgins"... never slept in the same bed with the person of the opposite sex that isn't a relative). That, plus sharing me a lot about how much I meant to him, really making me question about our relationship. Is he ready to propose to me? LOL We talked about it once but quickly said he isn't ready because he wants to puruse his dream of being a lawyer (which I'm for 100%) and I'm not ready because I just graduated from college and want to be established. But subtle hints like these makes me wonder if he's beginning to have a change of heart. We still haven't met each other's parents but planning to soon so that's another step. I see myself spending the rest of my life with him but I'm not sure what would I say if he asks me right now. *sighs* But anyway, even if he isn't going to propose right now, is he have marriage in his mind for the future? LOL
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| Sat, 09-10-2005 - 3:47am |
hello, he defenitely might be having marriage in his mind especially if both of you are taking the relationship very serious not like other couples. i completely understand both of you about getting things accomplished somewhat b4 taking that big step. I have been with my love for 3 years no seperations or break ups like other couples tend to do and we take our relationship extremely serious. we believe we are together to have a future with eachother whats the point of a relationship if youre not thinking about being with eachother "forever". unless ofcorse other circumstances come into play like cheating, abuse, or the person is COMPLETELY careless or lost respect. im sure from what you say he is taking you very serious and hope if god wants it to that both of you have a future with eachother. but you both should get more financially stable b4 jumping into it or suggesting it right now at this point in your lives. but dont get discouraged both of you can grow together, learn together, and go through your phases together not being married. the challenge is working through your relationships. just talk about what both of you think a relationship should consist? faithful wise? future wise? and if thats in your relationship? what do both of you want out of this relationship in order for it to be as healthy as possible? and ask whatever else might come to mind. wish you the best
