is he worth my time

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Registered: 06-13-2005
is he worth my time
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Sun, 09-25-2005 - 9:46am

Still cant get this guy out of my head. wondering if he was just a player or not. we got together relatively quick but i held off any sex though we did fool around. he gave me the impression that he wanted more than just a little action but he was leaving for the states a few days later. in his makeout style i read alot into him. we were able to laugh alot and not worry about how we looked and acted we giggled and he gave me alot of eye contact as we kissed and he was very intimate in the sense that he liked to hug and cuddle. he had a thing for skin to skin contact but respected my boundries and didnt insist that i was fully disrobed. i dont know if all this was a ploy to just see if he could get me to change my mind or what....well lets just say we got together again the day before he left and ya i did change my mind.....he gave me his email and i emailed a week later and then again a week after that with no response. i then sent a polite 'look i didnt ask for your email and i took it for what it was so y bother getting me to email if you werent going to respond' he responded within 4 mins! with the whole sorry i have been wildly busy and just have not be cognitive enuff to email. well we text flirted a little and i emailed him then he emailed me the next day. i am now going to back off for a couple of weeks and see what happens. well just need an opionion as i really really like this guy and i am not sure if i was played or if there is some feeling or whatever....i know i will see him again as his family lives here but i want more than just a hey how are ya.,......




Edited 9/25/2005 10:43 am ET ET by mostlyfun
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Registered: 10-13-2004
Sun, 09-25-2005 - 6:50pm

Honestly? It sounds to me like your relationship has far too few foundations to support a long distance relationship. Besides, many people simply don't do LDRs and he could be one of them.

So, my question to you is: what discussions did you have regarding having a LDR?

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