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| Fri, 11-11-2005 - 9:24pm |
OK, I have this guy I have known since elementary school. I lost contact with him during/after high school....we were in different groups and spoke on occasion but never really hung out because of this. Fast forward 10 years....I recently received an email from him through classmates to see how I was doing and stuff. He has moved 1000 miles away since high school while I am in the same place. We both have been married and divorced and both have custody of our little boys. Both our marriages ended badly his more recent than mine so I am not sure if he is having cold feet as he said he really got hurt and didnt ever want to feel that way again and this is when we were just speaking as friends and nothing more. But then things got mre seious. We talked on the computer and phone for a few weeks like everyday and have discussed everything and have gotten pretty close...talking about what we want kids, marriage and thngs and we feel the same way and wanted to see where things would go if we persude it. He asked to fly my son and I down to him and I responded that I would like to but I have school and finals for the next month and with Christmas coming I wasnt sure when would be good. He understood or so I thought and said that he is busy with work and his son also and that we would figure something out....well since then we havent been in contact much, mainly on his part...I have called and talked to him and I have emailed and havent heard much. Did my response push him to think I am not interested or is he not interested anymore....I need help and guidance not sure what I should do now? I really need help so I hope that someone reads this soon and responds...not sure what way to go with this
Edited 11/12/2005 6:03 pm ET by i_brandy77
Edited 11/12/2005 6:03 pm ET by i_brandy77

Hi Brandy,
Maybe he is going through some difficulty with his ex-wife and his son recently. He maybe trying to figure stuff out and he may be honestly busy with things right now. If this is the first holiday season with him and his ex-wife seperated his son maybe having alot of difficulty and so that maybe taking up some of his time. Did you also ask him if there was something you said or did to offend him in some way? There may be alot of things going on being recently divorced that he needs to straighten out. I doubt it has anything to do with you. Just give it alittle more time and see what happens. I hope this helps.