Help? Urgent!

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Registered: 05-10-2005
Help? Urgent!
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Tue, 05-10-2005 - 1:27pm
I have a problem. I've been seeing this guy for over a month now, and we really like each other. We hang out as much as possible when we have the time. It's great and I was so happy, I thought that maybe he could be the one. He had told me that he was happy and everything was so good between us. Everyone liked him, my friends, family, and he was such a good guy. I've been through the dumps with guys and I can usually tell if something is going good or bad. But I can't with this? This past week he has stopped calling me, and doesn't even want to hang out with me. I started to get a little worried and scared, I even cried because I was so upset. The other night, we were suppose to hang out and go to the bar together. When he says he's gonna call me he usually always did. Well, I waited a few hrs. and he never called I decided to jsut go out with my friends. Later on that night, I texted him on his cell asking if their was a problem between us and that he should call me. I was worried and scared. He texted me back with that "He hasn't had feelings for a girl like this in awhile, and that he was scared" and to call him....So I called him and we talked. I didn't know what to say but I told him that i care about him and I don't want to be with anyone else. I guess that meant nothing, because I haven't heard from him since that day I texted him, he's made no effort to call or text me and I'm getting worried??? What do I think? What should I do? Should I call him? The other night I was crying, because I haven't had feelings like this for a guy since my first love.
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Registered: 10-21-2004
In reply to: sweety83
Tue, 05-10-2005 - 2:15pm

Ok, you've known each other a month ... you're in that high infatuation phase where emotions are running amok ... wondering "AAAHH! What does this all mean?" ... just take a step back from worrying, breathe, relax ... if you were the last one to make contact ... leave it in his court. You talked it out ... he knows where you stand ... just relax, don't sit around waiting by the phone ... go about your business ... worrying solves nothing ...just take solace in knowing that you let him know how you felt ... this isn't an URGENT situation ... just let it play itself out. You know he has feelings for you, just let him sort it out. He'll get in touch with you.

RELAX! :)