How do I do this? Confused...
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|Fri, 05-01-2009 - 10:39pm|
For those who haven't followed my previous queries about this gentlemen...need some help!
"Met" on Match, have been on six dates since April 1, he has EOW with his daughters, I have my kids 24/7, so it's hard to coordinate seeing each other. Between dates, however, we talk every other day at least for an hour each time.
Just today, I had a slow time at work, so we talked for about an hour, then he called me back after work, we talked some more, then we met for dinner at 6:30!
But...all I get at the end of the "date" is a hug. I call it a "date", but I can't figure out what he wants from me. He pays for dinner, is it a date? He asks me out...is it a date? Originally, he had plans for tonight, they fell through on Tuesday, first thing Wednesday he e-mailed me to see if I could see him on Friday.
Am I solidly in the friend zone? I don't want to be. If I am dating, I would like to see it going somewhere. I am not sure the best way to approach him with the question, "What exactly are we doing here?" without seeming like I am looking to make a commitment to me. But I would like to know if he sees me as someone he wants to get involved with or just a friend.