How to get over my fear
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| Thu, 05-12-2005 - 3:18pm |
Hi, I am new to the board, I have a question, me and my boyfreind have been dating 3yr. We are both divorced, and we have a good relationship, but I have these worries, tell me if I am bring, insucure. He has alot of freind that are girls, some he has had relations with or flings if you want to call it that, he never dated any of them bcause he said he was not into them. But one of them is his best freinds wife know, they just got married two years ago, but I just found this out las may. It bothers me alot when we are around them because I keep thinking shwe slept with him. This was way before me or we ever knew each other, She is a freind of mine thru my boyfreind, how do I let this go, She doesn't know that I know, but he told me out of fear that I thought he was cheating, with a girl he used to have babysit for him why he was going thru a seperation, which was his best freinds ex girlfreind. So she used to stop by the house alot but not anymore after I told him that she was up to no good, and that I didn't think it was right. He tells me that he was not interested in her she asked before if he wanted to date and he said no. My boyfreind is so sweet to everyone, he is not mean to anyone, so am I beeing to sensitive or what, help me to understand this. I don't want it reining our relationship, we are great together and I feel we are moving in the right direction, sometimes that is why I think he is afraid to commit, because we both went thru terrible divorces.

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